THE #GetUser.GroupAssigned# - INTROVERSION

Will stay connected when others:

  • Are trying to build a lasting relationship with the Assister
  • Provide an environment that allows the Assister to express their thoughts and fears
  • Recognize the Assister for their ability to be fair and honest
  • Give the Assister time to reflect as it will affect their level of performance
  • Mirror the Assister’s calm and relaxed nature
  • Negotiate in a calm, quiet, and slow pace
Tends to disconnect when others:
  • Get too personal
  • Criticize before the Assister’s contributions are acknowledged
  • Do not allow the Assister to express their thoughts and concerns
  • The Assister’s feelings are not being recognized
  • “Tell” rather than “ask”
  • Apply pressure to make the Assister move faster
  • Don’t show respect for fellow mankind

What Assiters like people to know about themselves:

  • They are very sensitive as to how people feel
  • They are supportive, warm, and caring
  • You can be sure they will be there when you need them
  • They are responsible, caring, and sincere

What Assiters don't recognize or like to admit in themselves:

  • They can’t seem to say no, even if it will cause difficulty in their lives
  • They get upset when someone doesn’t return their favors
  • They don’t always express their true feelings
  • They feel that they aren’t doing enough for those closest to them

Some things Assiters want others to see in themselves:

  • Who I am: Empathetic
  • Purpose: To be of service with a smile to others
  • Value to the organization: Helps others to build relationships
  • Under stress: Bleeds inside
  • Worries about: Having to work under too much pressure
  • Would be more successful by: Learning to say “no”; limit involvement

Things you will rarely observe Assiters doing:

  • Not returning favors
  • Not showing empathy for people who are experiencing tough times in life
  • Leaving a desperate neighbor to fend for themselves

How to be in touch with Assiters:

  • Be willing to listen and show that you appreciate them
  • Let them know you value them
  • When communicating with them, make good and constant eye contact
  • If you need to pass judgment on them, do it kindly
  • Share life’s joys with them

Those who really understand Assiters say:

  • “They are admired by all who know them because they are willing to be there when someone needs them many times putting their own needs aside.”
  • “They are wonderful people to be around. They are honest, caring, and sharing, making others feel they are the most important person in their life.”